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How to Use ~ばよかった to Express Regret (“I Wish I Had…”)

Learning Japanese often means discovering subtle ways to express your feelings. One very common expression is ~ばよかった, which is used to say “I wish I had…” or “I should have…”. This grammar point is especially useful when you want to talk about regret or something you wish you had done differently.


The Meaning of ~ばよかった

The phrase ~ばよかった is built from:

  • The conditional form (~ば) of a verb
  • The word よかった (the past tense of “good”)

Together, it literally means “If I had done X, it would have been good.”
In natural English, this becomes “I wish I had done X” or “I should have done X.”


How to Form ~ばよかった

  1. Take the conditional ~ば form of a verb.
  2. Add よかった.

Examples:

  • く → けば → けばよかった
    (I wish I had gone.)
  • 勉強べんきょうする → 勉強べんきょうすれば → 勉強べんきょうすればよかった
    (I should have studied.)
  • う → えば → えばよかった
    (I wish I had bought it.)

Using Negative Verbs

You can also express regret about doing something by making it negative.

  • かない → かなければ → かなければよかった
    (I wish I hadn’t gone.)
  • べない → べなければ → べなければよかった
    (I shouldn’t have eaten it.)

Summary Chart

Affirmative (I wish I had / I should have)

VerbConditional Form~ばよかったMeaning
く (to go)けばけばよかったI wish I had gone / I should have gone
べる (to eat)べればべればよかったI wish I had eaten / I should have eaten
勉強べんきょうする (to study)勉強べんきょうすれば勉強べんきょうすればよかったI should have studied
う (to buy)えばえばよかったI wish I had bought it

Negative (I wish I hadn’t / I shouldn’t have)

VerbConditional Form~なければよかったMeaning
かない (not go)かなければかなければよかったI wish I hadn’t gone
べない (not eat)べなければべなければよかったI wish I hadn’t eaten
わない (not buy)わなければわなければよかったI wish I hadn’t bought it

Example Sentences

Here are some natural situations:

  • 昨日きのうのパーティーにけばよかった。
    I wish I had gone to yesterday’s party.
  • あの映画えいがればよかった。
    I should have watched that movie.
  • たかくつわなければよかった。
    I wish I hadn’t bought those expensive shoes.
  • もっとはやればよかった。
    I should have gone to bed earlier.

Why This Expression Is Useful

Japanese often uses indirect and softer ways to express emotions. Saying ~ばよかった lets you show regret without sounding too harsh. It’s also one of the most natural ways to talk about mistakes or missed opportunities in daily life.

Quick Practice

Try completing these sentences:

  1. 日本にほんったとき、もっと写真しゃしんを____ばよかった。
    (When I went to Japan, I wish I had taken more photos.)
  2. 昨日きのうのテストのまえに、もっと勉強べんきょう____ばよかった。
    (Before yesterday’s test, I should have studied more.)
  3. このケーキを全部ぜんぶ____なければよかった。
    (I wish I hadn’t eaten all this cake.)

Final Thoughts

The phrase ~ばよかった is an essential tool for expressing regret or missed chances in Japanese. Once you get used to forming the ~ば conditional, it becomes easy to use in daily conversation. Next time you feel like saying “I wish I had…” in Japanese, try practicing with ~ばよかった!

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