Here is the difference : ~たり~たり vs ~とか~とか in Japanese
When learning Japanese, you’ll quickly notice there are multiple ways to list actions or examples. Two common patterns are ~たり~たりする and ~とか~とかする. At first glance, they seem similar, but they have slightly different uses and nuances. Let’s break them down so you can use them naturally.
1. Using ~たり~たりする
The ~たり~たりする pattern is used to list a few representative actions or states among many possibilities. It’s often used to describe things you do sometimes, examples of activities, or a variety of actions.
Structure
- Verb (た-form) + り + Verb (た-form) + り + する
Example Sentences
- 日曜日は映画を見たり、本を読んだりします。
On Sundays, I watch movies, read books, and so on. - 日本では冬にスキーをしたり、温泉に入ったりする人が多いです。
In Japan, many people go skiing or take hot springs in winter (among other things).
👉 Nuance: It emphasizes that these are representative examples. There are other activities not mentioned, but these are a few you’re highlighting.
2. Using ~とか~とかする
The ~とか~とかする pattern is also used to list things, but the nuance is slightly different. It feels more casual and is often used in spoken Japanese to give examples in a lighter, less structured way.
Structure
- Noun / Verb (dictionary form) + とか + Noun / Verb + とか + する
Example Sentences
- 週末はカフェに行くとか、友だちと買い物するとかします。
On weekends, I might go to a café or go shopping with friends and such. - 趣味は、音楽を聞くとか、スポーツをするとかです。
My hobbies are things like listening to music or playing sports.
👉 Nuance: It feels like you’re saying “things like… or stuff like that.” It’s softer, less formal, and often used in conversation.
3. Key Differences
| Pattern | Usage | Nuance | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
| ~たり~たりする | Lists representative actions | Structured, slightly formal, covers variety | 本を読んだり、散歩したりします。 |
| ~とか~とかする | Lists casual examples | Conversational, lighter, “things like…” | 本を読むとか、散歩するとかします。 |
4. Quick Tips for Learners
- Use ~たり~たりする when describing a range of activities or what you did/didn’t do in a slightly formal context (essays, JLPT, polite speech).
- Use ~とか~とかする in casual daily conversation when you want to sound natural and relaxed.
- Both can sometimes overlap, but choosing the right one makes your Japanese sound more natural depending on the situation.
5. Practice Challenge
Try rewriting these sentences with both patterns:
- 今日何をしましたか?
- 日本で何をしましたか?
- あなたの趣味は何ですか?
Hint: Use both ~たり~たりする and ~とか~とかする to see how the nuance changes.
✨ By mastering these two patterns, you’ll be able to express activities and examples with more nuance, switching between structured (~たり~たりする) and casual (~とか~とかする) depending on the situation.
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