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Here is the difference : ~たり~たり vs ~とか~とか in Japanese

When learning Japanese, you’ll quickly notice there are multiple ways to list actions or examples. Two common patterns are ~たり~たりする and ~とか~とかする. At first glance, they seem similar, but they have slightly different uses and nuances. Let’s break them down so you can use them naturally.


1. Using ~たり~たりする

The ~たり~たりする pattern is used to list a few representative actions or states among many possibilities. It’s often used to describe things you do sometimes, examples of activities, or a variety of actions.

Structure

  • Verb (た-form) + り + Verb (た-form) + り + する

Example Sentences

  • 日曜日にちようび映画えいがを見たり、ほんんだりします。
    On Sundays, I watch movies, read books, and so on.
  • 日本にほんではふゆにスキーをしたり、温泉おんせんはいったりするひとおおいです。
    In Japan, many people go skiing or take hot springs in winter (among other things).

👉 Nuance: It emphasizes that these are representative examples. There are other activities not mentioned, but these are a few you’re highlighting.


2. Using ~とか~とかする

The ~とか~とかする pattern is also used to list things, but the nuance is slightly different. It feels more casual and is often used in spoken Japanese to give examples in a lighter, less structured way.

Structure

  • Noun / Verb (dictionary form) + とか + Noun / Verb + とか + する

Example Sentences

  • 週末しゅうまつはカフェにくとか、ともだちとものするとかします。
    On weekends, I might go to a café or go shopping with friends and such.
  • 趣味しゅみは、音楽おんがくくとか、スポーツをするとかです。
    My hobbies are things like listening to music or playing sports.

👉 Nuance: It feels like you’re saying “things like… or stuff like that.” It’s softer, less formal, and often used in conversation.


3. Key Differences

PatternUsageNuanceExample
~たり~たりするLists representative actionsStructured, slightly formal, covers varietyほんんだり、散歩さんぽしたりします。
~とか~とかするLists casual examplesConversational, lighter, “things like…”ほんむとか、散歩さんぽするとかします。

4. Quick Tips for Learners

  • Use ~たり~たりする when describing a range of activities or what you did/didn’t do in a slightly formal context (essays, JLPT, polite speech).
  • Use ~とか~とかする in casual daily conversation when you want to sound natural and relaxed.
  • Both can sometimes overlap, but choosing the right one makes your Japanese sound more natural depending on the situation.

5. Practice Challenge

Try rewriting these sentences with both patterns:

  1. 今日何きょうなにをしましたか?
  2. 日本にほんなにをしましたか?
  3. あなたの趣味しゅみなんですか?

Hint: Use both ~たり~たりする and ~とか~とかする to see how the nuance changes.


✨ By mastering these two patterns, you’ll be able to express activities and examples with more nuance, switching between structured (~たり~たりする) and casual (~とか~とかする) depending on the situation.

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